Anonymous asked: Why do I love and hate someone at the same time?
When you love someone, the things that you don’t like about them become magnified. I know I’m not one to label anything, but from experience—this is what true love is. You love someone even during the lowest of times—when you think you hate them. In the end, if all you feel is love, then it really is, in fact, love.
Juliet
AJ RAFAEL LAS VEGAS TICKETS
Hey all! So… we bought some tickets to AJ Rafael’s concert this weekend at The Sanctuary in Las Vegas, Nevada. Sadly, we can no longer go—so I’m selling the tickets. I bought them for 12 bucks a piece and that’s what you can have them for. Seriously, I am so sad we can’t go because I was looking forward to this event for a long time! :( Anyways, please send me a message if you’re interested. First come, first serve basically.
Anonymous asked: Hello Juliet, I already asked you something but here I am again , actually writing again. I just want to ask before really moving on, what if I shouldn't? Do you get me? I mean, what if there is still a possibility and that if I move on, I'll lose that possibility. How will I know if I should stop? If I should not. Because I told this boy that I want to talk to him personally he said yes, but I think he loves somebody else now, but Im not sure.Will I talk to him or not? love, HS girl who is sad
If he has already agreed to talk to you, by all means, go right ahead! Maybe this talk will help you figure out if both of you can work a relationship out. As for moving on, we never really know if we should or not. Let’s face it—it’s the hardest thing anyone can ever do! Sometimes, people are afraid to move on because they’re afraid of the changes their life will take… but you can ask anyone that has moved on from rough situations—it always gets better. Honestly, life is so full of opportunity and sometimes we are blinded by other things that stand in the way. For example, people tend to hold on to their relationships even if they aren’t working out because it is the only thing that they are familiar with… it’s unhealthy.
In your case, if you think this guy loves someone else—it might be time to actually move on despite what your feelings may be. If he is in love with someone else, you need to let go and let yourself be happy. You need to find your “new normal”.
Juliet
Anonymous asked: I feel that now I have text this boy for over 1 year, rang him+spent over 3 hours talking to him at a party last night there’s nothing more I can do. He live's miles away+I feel as if there’s nothing to live for now that I saw him at a party last night, that I have spoke to him for hours upon end, admiring him. I feel as if my world has been completed because ive seen him, touched him+stared at him. He's always on my mind, its as if he is a permanent image in my brain. Help? is this true love?
It’s possible. Only you can decide whether it is true love or not. You need to ask yourself how you truly feel about him—and if it would make a difference if he was gone or not.
Juliet
Anonymous asked: Dearest Juliet, Hi. This is really a long story but to make it short, I just lost my bestfriend and first real love. I'm only 14 but sometimes there are some things that just makes you feel so sure about it. It really hurts. I want him back but I don't want to steal and be the villain in their story because I honestly think this is not our story anymore. It's not about me anymore. And I really want to know how to move on. I asked alot of people how but none helped, I ended up crying. Thank you.
First of all, you being 14 and realizing that it is no longer ‘your’ story with your best friend/first love is impressive. It takes a long time for some people to realize those things—some adults don’t even see that sometimes. So, I applaud you for being mature in that sense. Anyways, if you really want to move on, it is time to discover a part of yourself that you’ve never known before. Getting over heartache and letting go of something that is ‘normal’ is the hardest thing anyone can do… but that’s the thing, YOU CAN DO IT! I would suggest finding a new hobby or meeting new people—this can really help open your eyes to something new that you can be passionate about. But, to do this, you really need to let go of your past relationship… even if that means you need to physically stay away, delete their phone number, or stay away from their facebook profile/other online social networks that this person has for a while. If you believe it’s not ‘your’ story anymore, you need to go ahead and write a new one. Good luck!
Juliet
Anonymous asked: Hello. I just wanna ask what is the difference of like and love? I'm confused of what I feel for him.
The fine line between like and love is difficult to see at times, but I find that the only way to truly figure it out is with time. If you just “like” him, at some point—you will get over him. If you “love” him—he will become your entire world. However, we must not forget that to begin to love someone, we must find out if we like them enough to love them. I hope this helps somewhat. Goodluck!
Juliet
Hi Followers!
Sorry I have been MIA! I’ve been really busy lately with school—and my phone doesn’t like me to get on Tumblr most of the time. Anyways, quick question for those who would still like to ‘drop something in my ask’:
How many of you have a Twitter and would like to follow me? I find that it is much easier for me to access my Twitter from my phone rather than Tumblr.
Of course, this would be my personal Twitter (meaning my identity would finally be revealed! Ha.) But I would still like to use it as something where people can send me an ‘ask’ as they would here on Tumblr. Keep in mind that on Twitter, you would no longer be anonymous.
Thoughts?
Anonymous asked: Dearest Juliet, since I've only so many characters to type, I'll make this rather quick. Basically, I'm an extremely shy girl. I have a hard time talking with boys that I'm not friends with - I'm easily intimidated. There's one boy, in my choir, who I don't know, but from what I've heard, he's a very nice young man. My friends and even choir director tease me about my "crush" on him. I'm SO BEYOND afraid to say something but he's actually transferring at the end of the semester. Advice?
Don’t give up on your opportunity to do something! If he’s leaving at the end of the semester, you need to say something to him before it’s too late. If you hear that he’s a really nice guy, then you know that he wouldn’t say something mean to you or turn his nose up at you. Take this chance to get to know him before he transfers—no regrets!
Juliet
